Saying “I love you” requires a little bit of effort. Perhaps it’s because of the way we were brought up where it’s not that common to express our affection through words daily. Or it could be something else. Either way, here’s the good news: action speaks louder than words! If you’re looking for a way you can say “I love you” without actually saying it, here are 11 ideas:
Do you know that men who kiss their wives in the morning live five years longer than those who don’t? This scientifically proven study by German physicians and psychologists revealed that all it takes is a simple peck on the lips or the cheek daily to show your love. Now this everyday kiss may not be as dramatic as your first kiss, but if it can improve your partner’s longevity at no cost at all, then yes please!
Don’t aim for the heart, but slightly lower - the tummy. They say that a surefire way to win someone’s heart is through the appetite, so pack his lunch daily or cook his simple favorite meal whenever you can. As for the guys, don’t just stop at asking if your girlfriends or wives have eaten, surprise them by sending over some snacks, desserts or even full meal their way. With so many online delivery service available, we dare you to do it now.
A daily dose of greeting is a form of encouragement to your partner. It shows that your relationship matters to you, so begin everyday by wishing a good morning, a ‘ have a good day” in between, and go to bed knowing you’ll have a good night.
It doesn’t take much to let someone know how much you appreciate their presence. Whenever you’re talking or doing some routines, reassure them of how much you enjoy spending time together by this simple gesture - smile.
Sometimes in our everyday lives, we tend to forget about how a silly joke changes our whole mood. If a joke ever comes your way, pass it over to your loved one as a way to say “ I think about you”.
Sometimes all we need is someone who listens, period. Nothing shows your attention by giving your partner the space and time to express themselves. Ask them to tell you how they feel and engage with their stories to show your support.
You may be a lousy masseuse but nothing says L.O.V.E like a little shoulder rub or foot massage. Imagine if you show up tired after work and your partner offers you a massage, wouldn’t that just pick your mood up?
It could be as simple as “ you can decide tonight’s meal” to something big like “ what do you think about me quitting my job”. Asking for your partner's opinion shows how much you value his or her input.
Actually, not for “ no reason” , the reason is because you love the person and just want to drop in anytime of the day in the middle of nowhere just to check up on them.
Arrange his eating utensils or prepare his nightwear out on the bed - these simple gestures will put miles in your relationship. Guys, you too can take initiatives and help out in the kitchen, cook a meal of wash the dish after, we definitely love it!
Freeze today in a frame. Don’t wait for a special occasion. Everyday is a special one when you’re around your loved ones. So take a picture, on your cellphone or better, professionally taken to remember today and celebrate love.
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SweetEscape is an on demand photography platform. Tired of hearing the overused new year, new me slogan from your circle of friends and acquaintances? Believe it or not... we are too! It's great and all in the sense that people would like to change within the new year (hopefully) for the better. But think about it, why wait for the new year to improve yourself as a person? At least, SweetEscape would like to (if we may) propose that improving, re-vamping and enhancing yourselves shouldn't be a yearly thing - if anything, it should be an everyday thing! "What? Are you serious?" You're probably asking. Life is short, escapists, and it's definitely too short to not make any changes in our lives so that we better ourselves for others as well. With that said, here are 5 things that you could do before the year finally ends:
As humans, we don't stop growing throughout our lifetime. The things we enjoyed doing when we were younger may differ from the things we now enjoy, and that's because we don't get any younger. Perhaps you adored your toy/figurine collection when you were in your teens, and was your number 1 prized collection in your entire room. Or maybe, you were the type to hang posters of your favorite bands and role models on the walls of your room, much like that of a late 80's or early 90's teen bedroom. Surely you've gone a long way from there, and if you haven't transformed your room that much... now is the perfect time to do so! Rearrange your furniture, or maybe even Feng shui it up - it won't hurt! You'll feel a thousand times better in a freshly organized room.
A whole year is a long time, 365 days long to be exact. When the same clothes are worn repetitively even over a period of 1 year, they can still become over-worn if worn too often. It's now time for you to, if not get a whole entire new wardrobe, re-vamp your closet and outfits. Do your clothes still fit properly? Are they still wearable in the times ahead? Can you still see yourself wearing your current outfits? If you answered no to all or most of them, then chances are that you need to toss them in the bin and purchase new ones. For future reference, go shopping for clothes that are more durable and timeless - that way, you wouldn't need to re-vamp your closet too often (hopefully). If your closet is mostly filled with bright and youthful colors, then try to balance it out by adding more neutral colors to your collection of items.
Have a careful look of your belongings, and recall whether were personally purchased or given by a certain person in the past. Perhaps you were in a committed relationship that just didn't last, and that's totally fine! People grow together while some just grow apart instead. In the case that you still have those belongings from your previous partner, or simply any item that brings back memories of your time together - let those items go and head on to a new chapter of your life. It could also be items that remind you of a certain time way back when, and perhaps you were a lot happier then than you are now. Having those items could really make you stuck in the past and eventually hinder you from moving forward. You wouldn't want that, would you? SweetEscape believes in you!
One of the most important things people tend to forget, is to pause for a moment and reflect upon what they have received in life. Often times we would forget about the things we have in life, and even the little things that matter are often missed. We don't blame you, life can get really tough at times... and during those times it's especially hard to sit back and be thankful for perhaps anything. Clear your mind and start from the smaller things. Do you have a roof over your head? Put aside the fact that your toilet is often clogged, or that your wooden floor is not the kind of wood that you prefer. Be thankful that you actually have a home - be thankful you aren't homeless! Do you have access to enough food and water on a daily basis? Then that's another simple thing to be thankful about. Remember, start with the little things. You'll be surprised as to how fortunate you are compared to many lives out there.
For as long as we're living on this planet, we will be making human errors - and it's inevitable. Mistakes aren't bad because you're expected to make them to be able to grow as a person. The more mistakes you made, the more you learn to avoid repeating the same mistakes again. If you have siblings, you probably have memories of their toddler days. Babies are curious beings, and chances are that you and your siblings were as well. Perhaps your parents told your kid sibling to not touch fire, but as expected, they did anyway. What happened next? Your sibling screamed in shock and pain, and your parents would give them the "I told you so" reaction. After this incident, we would like to believe that your sibling never repeated that same mistake again.
Growing up is hard, we'll give you that. But adult-ing is even harder! Think about it, first it's the school, then your first job, afterwards fall in love with your special someone, but you forgot to learn about taxes, then you'd have to learn about taxes, and don't forget the bills - electricity, water, and your groceries. We're not even half way done listing all of the adult-ing activities, but you generally get the idea. Since adults live such stressful lives, it's necessary for them to relieve from stress, de-stress and escape from the usual burden-some routine. Not to mention, adult lives seem to attract so much nuisance and irritating people almost on a day-to-day basis. For you and yourself alone, you should remember to take some time for yourself. In this case, we suggest for you to take a solo trip somewhere nice and serene where you can be free of all of your worldly problems for just a little while. It'll help you refresh your mood before the end of the year and beginning of a new year.
Last but not least (pay very close attention to this one) is you should release all feelings of anger, grudges and resentment towards anyone who have wronged you. It ain't easy, we know! But the thing is, having all of those pent up negative emotions are far from good for your mind, body and soul. You might not realize it now, but you'll slowly start to see how everything unravels as you prolong those feelings within you. If you'd like to let go of those negative feelings, try activities such as yoga and mediation. They're highly beneficial for your well being. If that happens to not be your cup of tea, then you could start a journal of all the things you feel. Trace it back, and find out why you feel those things. Once through, ask yourself, "Is all of this anger worth my time and energy?". Chances are, the person whom you have pent up emotions towards have long forgotten about their bad deeds to you, so why waste your time? They too, will get their taste of life later on. Life is short, don't waste it on negativity!
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